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LABOUR ORGASM

Orgasmic birth? Yeah right

I struggle to see the point of 'sexy time' during labour, it seems to me kind of dangerous and a little, well, nuts.

Handling a monster-in-law

OPINION: So your partner's mum isn't keen on you - is it your job to make things right?

How to play happy families

Creating a functional family that feels connected is no small feat.

Kids first, partner second

Why one mum puts her children ahead of their dad - and why research says that's actually not a bad thing.

Mother's Day gift guide

If you are looking for some Mother's Day inspiration (or perhaps a way to drop some friendly hints) check out our gift gallery.

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Sex space

How much sex is 'normal'

Sex isn’t just sex. We are told that it is a barometer of the quality and intimacy of our relationships.

couple talking

Post-baby relationship

When a couple become parents, both have expectations of their partner. If we don't talk about them, conflict is inevitable.

Sleeping

Benefits of sleeping alone

A recent survey shows sleeping in separate beds may help save your relationship.

Stressed mum

'I don't like your child'

What happens if your kids don't get along with your friend's kids? Or worse, if you don't like your friend's kids?

Sex

Men fake orgasms too

The "totally unexpected truth" about male sexuality.

couple in bed

No sex after baby

I had a baby five months ago. I'm not interested in firing up my sex life yet but I don't want to hurt my husband's feelings.

Dementia

The heartbreak of dementia

For many adult children, seeing their parents live with dementia can be heartbreaking, medical doctor Cecilia Brennecke shares her story.

An unhappy woman

Empty nests, angry mums

They were the good mothers, who did what society told them to do and put their children first, all the time. So why are they angry now their children have grown?

TROPCIAL BEACH

Do you envy your friends?

With every Facebook post and email detailing my friend's exciting existence my resentment and envy grew, until the point when I stopped corresponding.

heart

Relationship check

For better or worse, in sickness and health, working as a team before you have a baby is really important.

Karen Elson

I grew up after my divorce

Model-turned-musician Karen Elson says divorcing rocker Jack White was traumatic, but helped her grow up.

Secret, hush, silence, lies, lying

Does lying ruin a relationship?

Does lying always ruin a relationship? How much honesty do you practise and require from your partner?

sleep deprivation

Relationships and sleep deprivation

When our babies were small, I remember being so damn tired some days I could barely find the letter box, let alone a divorce lawyer.

George

Sexual misperception

We'll call it the 'Costanza' study. The findings: men think women want to have sex with them more than women actually do.

sex space

The case for having less sex

“I think it’s good, sometimes, that we go without sex.”

Talk about sex

Let's talk about sex

Time to radically rethink sex? Alain de Botton thinks so.

MOTHER AND DAUGHTER

Raising step-children

Becoming part of a blended family is a huge adjustment process for everyone involved. It requires time and patience for trust and respect to flourish.

SEX

Sex after baby

Relighting your sex life after giving birth can take a while. New research finds out how long, on average, it takes couples to get back into the swing of things.

An unhappy woman

Meeting your birth mother

You'd think, from all the forced adoption documentaries and TV series flying around, that my birth mother Bonnie would have been thrilled to have me back in her life. THRILLED. Not so much, as it happens.

Court

Cutbacks to free counselling

OPINION: I know a ton of people who have taken up the Family Court's free six counselling sessions through Relationship Services. Under proposed changes to the Family Court the six free sessions are to be axed to just one.

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